A Change of Heart

Preparing a talk: A Change of Heart

When I lived in Lancaster-- a city most would consider a desert city, there were many times I packed water in my bag-- even if I only thought I was going to be gone for 15 minutes.  As anyone who has visited or lived in the desert knows, water is the most important thing to bring with-- no matter how long you think you are going to be.

One hot July day, after drinking my water, there was a long space of time before I could get more.  With the desert heat surrounding me, I could feel myself drying out. I knew that if I ignored the situation, I would become seriously dehydrated, and in danger of heat stroke.  I decided to leave what I was doing and drive to the nearest store and grab more water.  I drove to the local grocery store, pulled a couple of chilled water bottles out of the mini fridge, and paid the requested amount.  As soon as I had paid for the water, I twisted a cap off, and drank.

The tingling that came about was marvelous.  It was a physical hydration reaction.

A Change of Heart can be the same thing-- but what is a 'change of heart'?

In his talk, 'Putting off the Natural Man' David Hellem stated:

"Spiritual rebirth as a separate experience 

that does not necessarily occur at the   time of water baptism or the laying on the hands, the changes that occur when   this rebirth takes place, and the necessary conditions that bring  about this transformation.

We recall that Nicodemus approached the Savior inquiring how one  might enter the kingdom of God. Although the Apostle John did not  record Nicodemus’s specific questions, he did record the Savior’s  response: “Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born  again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.” (John 3:3.)Moments later, the Savior clarified what he meant: “Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God.” (John 3:5; italics added.) After Alma had been“born of the Spirit,” he announced that all mankind must be similarly “born again” or they can  “in nowise inherit the kingdom of God.” (Mosiah 27:24–26.) Clearly, the rebirth experience is a necessary prerequisite to enter the kingdom of God."

There are many times where we 'dry out'.  One of the most recognizable is when we sin.

As humans, we all sin.  We learn, we grow, but the process can be messy.  And-- as humans-- we are bound to make mistakes along the way.

In President Benson's talk, ' A Mighty Change of Heart', given in 1989, we can learn some enduring principles.

"Violation

of the laws of God brings only misery,bondage, and darkness." 

Or, in other words, we 'dry out' when we don't obey God's commandments. 

 If we would be true members of the Church is that repentance involves not just a change of actions, but a change of heart.  

President Benson states:  "When King Benjamin finished his remarkable address in the land of Zarahemla, the  people all cried with one voice that they believed his words. They knew of a surety that  his promises of redemption were true, because, said they, “the Spirit of the Lord  Omnipotent … has wrought a mighty change in us, or in our hearts, [and note this] that  we have no more disposition to do evil, but to do good continually.” (Mosiah 5:2.)

"When we have undergone this mighty change, which is brought about only through faith in Jesus Christ and through the operation of the Spirit upon us, it is as though we have   become a new person. Thus, the change is likened to a new birth.Thousands of you have experienced this change. You have forsaken lives of sin, sometimes deep and offensive   sin, and through applying the blood of Christ in your lives, have become clean. You have no more disposition to return to your old ways.You are in reality a new person. This is   what is meant by a change of heart."

Sometimes, if we are careful, we can 'stay hydrated', but it is a challenge.  

Elder Wilford W. Andersen stated: 

"Those who exercise faith in Christ by obeying His commandments, repenting of their sins, earnestly entering into the covenant of baptism, and then renewing that covenant weekly will experience the purifying power of the Holy Ghost unto the remission of their sins. They will receive and retain a mighty change of heart.... 

Alma taught that God grants unto men according to their  desires, whether they be good or evil see Alma 29:4).Our hope,then is not just to refrain from sinning but also to turn to the Lord,  who has the power to grant a remission of our sins, to purify our  desires, and to change our very natures (see Mosiah 5:2)."

There is an additional step, however, in the miraculous process of  the remission of sins. Nephi taught that after we receive the gift  of the Holy Ghost, we must endure to the end. When we exercise our   faith unto repentance, are baptized, and receive the gift of the   Holy Ghost, the miracle begins. But the cleansing power and   reassuring influence of the Holy Ghost will remain with us only if we “press forward with a steadfastness in Christ”(see 2 Nephi 31:19–20).

"Alma understood this principle, asking his people, “And now behold, I say unto you, my brethren, if ye have experienced a change of   heart, and if ye have felt to sing the song of redeeming love, I   would ask, can ye feel so now?” (Alma 5:26)."

"If after baptism we commit sin and lose the Spirit’s influence,what are we to do? The Savior has provided the answer. He has given us  the sacred ordinance of the sacrament."

The sacrament-- a time of bread and water. Hydration-- but for the spirit.  As we strive for that mighty change of heart, and to keep it, and endure to the end, we are not alone.  We can work towards this mighty change with the partnership of our Savior.

In Helamen 15:7, it states: And behold, ye do know of yourselves, for ye have witnessed it, that as many of them as are brought to the knowledge of the truth...and are led to believe the holy scriptures, yea, the prophecies of the hol prophets, which are written, which leadeth them to faith on the Lord, and unto repentance, which faith and repentance bringeth a change of heart unto them---

 I know that change is possible.  I believe that this can be ours-- a new birth, a new heart.  I say these things in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.  

Be Not Afraid..... And Be Not Offended

Ever have your faults thrown in your face?  Me too.  The funny thing (or seriously cool thing, depending on how you look at it), I wasn't offended by it. 

How in the world was this possible you ask?

Well, my character developmental journey this week started (and it's still going, so this may turn into a 'by stages' theme),  with a man named Moroni. 

Moroni was in charge of a great Nephi army.  He was young, smart, and very, very good at what he did.  He wasn't the conquering general that we often think of.  Instead, he was the epitome of a fantastic defensive general.  He believed in and had faith in God, was honorable, and acted with high moral courage. 

He was also rather protective of his army. 

When the government had failed to bring in support such as food and supplies, he wrote to his government's highest official, Pahoran.  This letter wasn't a kind, sweet letter.  Instead it accused Pahoran of neglect, mismanagement, and treason.

But behold, this is not all-- ye have withheld your provisions from the, insomuch that many have fought and bled out their lives... because of your exceedingly great neglect towards them.  (Alma 60:9)

It doesn't stop there. In Alma 60: 18 it states: ...For we know not but what ye are also traitors to your country.

How would you respond to these accusations?

Pahoran is one of the wisest, kindest, and least judgmental men I've ever read about.  This is only one small portion of his reply, but in it is a powerful message of temperance, kindness, and charity.

And now, in your epistle you have censured me, but it mattereth not; I am not angry, but do rejoice in the greatness of your heart. .. Alma 60:9

Turns out, Pahoran was under attack, had fled the capital, and was running for his life.  Yet, despite all his trials, he finds something positive to focus on, and gives Moroni-- the man who just accused him of neglect and treason-- a compliment. 

Pahoran was a man of integrity and kindness.  He didn't focus on the accusations-- he focused on the intent of Moroni-- and thus Pahoran was able to look past the hurtful words.  It isn't an easy thing to do, but I think it was possible because both Moroni and Pahoran were seeking the same end goal: the freedom of their people from the bondage and the bloodshed that was threatening them.

Therefore, my beloved brother, Moroni, let us resist evil...that we may retain our freedom...  Alma 61: 14


Freedom.

Free from bondage.  Free from bloodshed.  Free from anger.

Pahoran was a wise man.

I am trying to be more like Pahoran.  It isn't easy, but I think it's worth it.

Vainity Is All About The Empty Gas...Tank

I was off to a wedding reception a couple of weeks ago--a hundred miles each way-- when somewhere along the way, I realized: it was Saturday.  Now this may seem a rather silly realization, (especially given the reception invite in my purse), but for the past several weeks, I have been trying to make a point of filling my gas tank up every Saturday evening, so that come Sunday morning, I know all is well and good.  There have been times in my past where the excitement of the weekend activities are so distracting that I completely forgot to think about filling up my tank on a Saturday-- and then, being on empty, I need to put a few dollars in the tank just to get to church the next day.

Vanity is emptiness..... and in comparison to my Sunday worship, all my Saturday excitement really is small stuff.  And that's the point: no matter how busy my Saturday got, it really was leaving me with an empty spiritual glass....and an empty gas tank.

This time, as I had a hundred mile journey ahead of me, I looked down and realized that I only had a quarter tank of gas left-- not nearly enough gas to help get me there and back.  I couldn't fill up later, I would have to do it soon.  Google was leading the way, and so somewhere on a seemingly random exit in El Monte, I got off, turned into a gas station, and started to fill up my tank. 

I saw a family with backpacks walking around the gas station.  Three kids and a dad.  They didn't look too scruffy, but it was getting dark, and I began to wonder what was going on with them. As they got closer, I could hear what the dad was asking the other people at the gas station.  The dad was going around asking for money, looking for some cash to pay for the night's stay at the hotel next door. 

And all of a sudden, my nerves were tingling, and I knew .....  this was needed, and it was something in my power to help with.  I don't usually carry any cash, but earlier that day I had pulled out some cash by accidently hitting a button wrong at the check out at the grocery store.  Here was a chance to take a 'mistake' and create some good.  I handed the boy the money, and watched as this family walked over to the hotel, and started registering. 

We are told in the scriptures that we can ask for things.  We can ask for blessings for our families, our work, our homes, the very food we eat, and all sorts of things to be blessed.  As sons and daughters of Heavenly Father, we are divinely given that right.  However, it comes with a catch: we need to help the needy, the naked, visit the sick and afflicted, and impart of our substance with those who are in need of it--  whether this be a physical item, or an emotional lift.    To receive His Hands in our lives, means a willingness to be those hands if the need arises. 

In Alma 34: 28--29 we are cautioned: "...I say unto you, if ye do not any of these things, behold, your prayer is vain, and availeth you nothing, and ye are as hypocrites who do deny the faith.  Therefore, if ye do not remember to be charitable, ye are as dross..."

"But charity is the pure love of Christ, and it endureth forever; and whoso is found possessed of it at the last day, it shall be well with him." Moroni 7: 47

The pure love of Christ can work miracles-- inside and out.  Oftentimes what we see on the outside isn't the whole story.  I don't know the backstory of the family.  I only know that my Heavenly Father gave me a chance to be somewhere on a Saturday night where our paths could cross, and I was supplied with the means to help.

Then He stepped back to see what would happen.